Mental Health Awareness Month: The Woman Behind the Work
- Chanelle Spencer
- May 25
- 3 min read
Yet another Mental Health Awareness Month has rolled around. This month feels especially meaningful to me, not only as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, but as the Communications Lead of a community built for ambitious, purpose-driven women in business (who often secretly struggle with their mental health).
Hi everyone, my name is Chanelle and I’m many things, but just to name a few: I’m a proud boy mom, business owner, wellness facilitator and clinical supervisor. I've been with OQC since February 2025, and what drew me to this organization was the sense of community it brings. I know as a business owner and a mental health professional the importance of being connected to a community.

Every day in my private practice, I meet with women navigating anxiety, burnout, depression, relationship stress, imposter syndrome, and major life transitions. And within OQC, I see women building brands, leading initiatives, organizing events, mentoring others, and showing up for their communities with excellence.
The idea that connects both of these spaces for me is this truth:
We must acknowledge and remember the woman behind the work.
Behind every business launch is a nervous system. Behind every collaboration is emotional and physical labor. Behind every “I’ve got it handled” is sometimes a quiet feeling of overwhelm.
During this month of mental health awareness, I want to make it crystal clear that being aware of your mental health is not about "something being wrong with you". Mental health awareness is about sustainability. It is about whether the life you’re building supports your well-being or slowly drains it. It is about how you speak to yourself when the business launch doesn’t go as planned. It is about the boundaries you honor (or abandon) in the name of an opportunity.
Ambitious women are often praised for their resilience. I'm sure lots of us have been there (I'm guilty too): We push through. We adapt. We carry more than we should. However, resilience without rest and intention becomes burnout. Productivity without reflection becomes a disconnection from ourselves. Being aware of your mental health is taking a moment to check your capacity before you add that next thing to your plate.

So for this month, I’m offering an invitation to pause and ask yourself:
Am I operating from alignment or pressure?
Where am I overextending myself?
What have I normalized that is actually exhausting me?
When was the last time I felt rested, and not just caught up?
Please hear me when I say that being mindful and aware of your mental health is not, and should not be performative. It's not a one off thing to focus on once a year. It's not a social media trend or hashtag. It is personal endeavor. It is a daily, intentional effort for your well being. Mental health awareness is choosing to regulate your nervous system before responding. Being mindful of your mental health is allowing imperfection. It is seeking therapy without shame. It is logging off earlier than usual. It is asking for help. It is redefining success to include rest and peace.
At OQC, we believe in collaboration through experiences, growth through education, and community. As a woman in business, however you choose to collaborate, grow and build community it should come with a sense of emotinal and mental safety. It should include a space to be honest with others and yourself. It should support an environment that does not require you to be "put together" all the time.
You are allowed to build something meaningful while protecting your mental health at the same time.
This month (and every month) may we remember that tending to the woman behind all the hard work that you do is not optional. It is foundational.
Reading about mental health is one thing, living it is another. May we live more intentionally.

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